When we get too involved in the act of pretending, we lose the idea of knowing the pretense of others. Isn' t that how it Works? We don' t know the acts we do thin King good for the others even to the extent of hurting them to save them from major hurt will cause them to go through much more than we can think of. Sometimes it is not too te to correct the pretenses but sometimes it is te to a mend them. Let' s see whether it is too te or just in time.
